One pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth. Proverbs 13:7, TLV

Pretend Respect?     Why would someone pretend to be rich? In order to appear rich, we would have to spend money — money we probably don’t have — on clothing, houses, vehicles. But, why? Could it be because a rich person has immediate respect? At least initially?

It’s nice to be respected. But genuine respect from others takes time and effort — on our part.

Wealth can imply worthiness of honor. At the very least, most people are drawn to someone of influence. So, perhaps, some believe pretending to be rich is a short cut to acceptance and respect.

But is it, really?

False Perspective

I went to a private, parochial high school. My parents in no way could afford it. Most of the students came from families with money. As I walked the halls, there were girls who wore head-to-toe designer clothing, with a Villager monogrammed purse on their shoulder.

Oh, how I wanted those symbols of success — actually, their parents’ success. How driven with envy I was. Instead of focusing on the wonderful opportunity for a stellar education, I coveted and complained to my parents. Sigh. Not very proud of that.

While I don’t pretend to be rich anymore — thank goodness — I still sometimes struggle with the desire for respect and acceptance. If I can focus on my Heavenly Father and His Son, the beautiful examples of humility and integrity, I am inspired to do the same. Because my great wealth has nothing to do with things.

Think More About It

Do you struggle with wanting acceptance and respect? Do you pretend to be something/someone that you believe people will view as worthy of honor? Not sure? Ask the Holy Spirit to show you. When we know, we will see just how wealthy we are. And that’s a great thing.

Until tomorrow, may we focus on our greatest wealth, my friends.

Thank you for your continued support and prayers for Israel. God bless you!