Throw out a scoffer and strife will go out, quarreling and disgrace will cease. Proverbs 22:10, TLV
No Scoffing Allowed! We’ve all experienced it. The uncomfortable moment when a scoffer alters an atmosphere from hopeful and cooperative to discouraging and divisive. The scoffer injects cynicism and non-constructive criticism for reasons only they know, but the root of those reasons comes from a place that wants to destroy unity.
The most disconcerting thing about the scoffer is how easy it is to become one! There are certain emotions and sins that create openings in our hearts:
- Disappointments/ discouragements,
- Self-righteousness
- Need for control
- Pride
- Greed
- and Fear
- But, mostly the root of that scoffing is from the pain of unforgiveness.
My name is Terri, and I am a recovering scoffer. The Lord has been mercifully rooting it out of me for years. If I’m not observant, it can pop up in the most awkward of situations. When I want to shout that one word “Whatever!” and walk away.
It’s when I notice that surprised response to something I’ve said,
most times, I’ve slipped back into scoffing.
Of course, that means I need to acknowledge and apologize for it, which is embarrassing. I just hope I haven’t caused any long-term hurt and/or distrust.
Experience Breeds Alertness
The good thing? I can spot a scoffer. And you can be sure I will approach with caution, firmness and grace, just as others have done with me.
So, I give you permission, my friends, to hold me accountable if you witness a snide remark coming from my lips. Remind me that the scoffer is not welcomed, but the real Terri is.
Think More About It
Are you a newly discovered scoffer, recovering scoffer, or don’t know what I’m talking about? Concerned that perhaps you may be one of the above? Seek the Holy Spirit and wise counsel.
Hello, my name is _________, and I am a recovering scoffer.
Until tomorrow, may the scoffer within and without be removed, my friends. Bless you for your continued prayers for Israel.
Chag Semeach Pesach!
